No apologies...No regrets...Just amazingness (Retro Post)
See here's the thing...you have to live for yourself and no one else. Until of course you have kids and a husband and the whole nine...picket fence, golden retriever...umm...yea that. Because THEN you're living for everyone BUT yourself first, then comes you. It's just the way the (organic, macadamia nut and white chocolate chip) cookie crumbles.
"WE ARE FUCKIN' PERFECT!"
We are perfectly imperfect and that's all that matters. We drink too much sometimes, we curse, we seamlessly speak in Spanish then English, we assume everyone speaks Spanish, we hug, we kiss, we dance... we love hard, play hard and WORK even harder. So when we do get to have those moments and good times...we shouldn't do anything but cherish them.
I'm honestly not sure whether it's a good or bad thing that in my 25th year I've realized...I only have to make myself happy. And if there's anyone in my circle that is offended by that...disagrees with that...or gets angry about that...well then...that's not a real friend. This is something I believe everyone should realize. If my happiness doesn't make you happy and vice versa...the shit isn't real. I want to laugh until I can't breathe. I want to drink margaritas and be ridiculous, I want to take pictures of EVERYTHING and I want to share it all with the people I love.
So before you second guess anything you WANT to do that is going to make you happy because of ANYONE else...just remember...
"SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST A SEASON IN YOUR LIFE...OTHERS ARE THERE THROUGH ALL OF THEM"
And...once you start living for YOU...everything else will become aligned. It's natural order. Your life, your rules.
Until next time....
Peace, love, glitter and tutus.
I'm off on an adventure.